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When Accepting Your Partner's Influence Feels Hard (& How To Make It Easier)
Written By Ashley Gray, LCSW, MFTC You're well aware that you and your partner are supposed to make decisions together. However, that knowledge doesn't make it any easier to do. There is something that makes it so easy to discount their input, almost automatically, that you don't even notice it all the time. Your partner notices though and they definitely let you know how they feel about it. They don't feel considered or like you two are equals because they don't get to have
Oct 278 min read


When To Split Up (& how to approach therapy if you're working on things)
Written By Ashley Gray, LCSW, MFTC It is a horrible option to have to weigh in your mind. You have spent so much time creating a life...
Feb 2111 min read


Nothing is Wrong. Why Don't We Feel Close?
Written By Ashley Gray, LCSW, MFTC When it comes to you and your partner, things are good. Mostly. The bills are paid, you have fun...
Aug 16, 20247 min read


Getting Heard By Your Partner: Complaints vs Criticism
Written by Ashley Gray, LCSW, MFTC There is this scene from this show I watched as a kid, called Fast Forward. It's a show about two...
Apr 5, 20246 min read


Three Things You Can Do Today, To Improve Your Marriage
Written by Ashley Gray, LCSW, MFTC Nothing stings like relationship issues. When things are off in your marriage or committed...
Feb 23, 202410 min read

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