Written By Ashley Gray, LCSW, MFTC In continuing my overview of attachment patterns, this post will be about disorganized attachment patterns. For those that may not be familiar, attachment patterns are are how you give, receive, and respond to love in a relationship. The patterns are characterized by how (or if) you advocate for your needs and respond to the needs of your partner. You can find my post on anxious attachment patterns here and my post on avoidant attachment