Written By Ashley Gray, LCSW, MFTC In continuing my overview of attachment patterns, this post will be about disorganized attachment patterns. For those that may not be familiar, attachment patterns are are how you give, receive, and respond to love in a relationship. The patterns are characterized by how (or if) you advocate for your needs and respond to the needs of your partner. You can find my post on anxious attachment patterns here and my post on avoidant attachment

Written By Ashley Gray, LCSW, MFTC You have been sitting with this gnawing feeling for quite some time now. You might be engaged or have been considering marriage and the possibility feels like it is looming. It feels like the walls are closing in on you and you just don't know if you can make the right choice. How can you know for sure if they are really the right person? How can you know if marriage is really right for you? Let's go back to the beginning. It started out wel