Written By Ashley Gray, LCSW, MFTC Congratulations on your engagement! Being engaged can be such an exciting time! It can also be a time where you're over scheduled. You might feel conflicted in your decision making and maybe even wrestling with family and friends regarding wedding plans. There is so much to do and decide that adding one more thing might feel like a gigantic stretch. At the same time, you want to be prepared for marriage. The years ahead will bring many miles